I was reading some romantic portion in the novel and that all of a sudden reminded me of my roommate and the love theories she had. So my this particular roommate belonged to a very good family and had an NRI boyfriend who used to pamper her a lot. She was always stocked with cosmetics and chocolates courtesy her BF.I will not say that she was not capable of buying all those things but you know the pleasure of using the things gifted by someone special is what matters more. No! I am not here to talk about their relationship but I want to tell about the sweet talks or the love gyan that she and I used to share. Before marrying I also had a courtship with my husband. So it was like that time we both had BF's, we intended to marry and we used to share our experiences about it. Things like where we went, how we spent the day -- when the man in our lives used to visit us. I think in my life she was the only person I shared my wardrobe with -- which I have not even done with my sisters. This was because we both were nearly of the same height and weight. I still remember how we used to ask everyone that who is the fatter among us, praying that they name the other one. Many times only to prove that the other one is fatter- we used to go and weigh ourselves in the weighing machine that our landlady had. I have always been a simple, plain girl whereas she was someone who was quite particular about everything she wears. She taught me how to put kajal(which now I use on a daily basis) and some basics about the cosmetics. She was the one who used to to take the maximum time to dress up and I teasingly used to call her the “main heroine” whereas we all were the side ones.
Enough about the other things, so let’s come to her love gyan. Once when my BF was about to come she asked me to go in a proper dressed up way. So me on her instructions clad in a salwar suit, my hair open and wearing big earrings - originally owned by her, went to meet my BF.In the evening when I came back, she was eagerly waiting for me and wanted to know about my BF's response. She shooted all kind of questions at me like - Did he praise my looks? Did he say that you are looking beautiful? Did he notice the earrings? She was disappointed to know that my BF didn't approve of the lovely fancy earrings and I had to tie my hair afterwards because I couldn't manage them. I still remember that she wasn't happy with my BF's behavior and bombarded me with a list of questions to check that if he really loves me or not. How she showed me the quiz on Sunday times which said "When Should You Quit from a Relationship?”. She was a fortunate girl to have a BF who was in awe with her, someone who used to say you are looking pretty whenever they would meet but unfortunately her parents have not yet permitted her for the marriage.
So quiz yourself with the following questions:
Does your hubby/BF say things like "you are looking beautiful" "you
are looking pretty"
Does you hubby/Bf say "I love you" or "I love you +your name" (if he
says your name too this means he really mean what he say)
Did he ever say "you are looking hot"
Does he get gifts for you?
Does he plan surprises for you?
P.S: Don't get disheartened if you score low cos 90% of hubby/Bf have the following answers : You always look beautiful, hot and pretty so I don't need to say at any particular moment. Remember "Facts need not to be spoken" :)
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